What happens when your household goes from four cats to one?
Leo is showing us the way.
A large, long-haired black cat, Leo has always been quiet and reclusive. But since he’s become the only feline in the house, he’s come out of his shell.
Leo now meows when he’s ready to eat. He often follows me, or my husband, Paul, around. He waits at the door when Paul takes our dog, Will, for a walk, then sniffs the pup’s hindquarters once he’s back in the house.
To those of us who have known and loved Leo for 12 years, this is amazing.
Leo came to us because he needed a home and we had a space. Paul and I determined, in our younger years, that we could handle four cats. We wanted to help the cat overpopulation problem, but four was the limit. If we lost one, we added one.
A student of mine needed a place for his cat, and we had an opening.
Leo was almost two at the time, so he’s 14 now. When he arrived, the petite tortoiseshell Clara reigned supreme in the family. Sweet but elusive Annie and handsome, gregarious Teddy rounded out the kitty population, and there were two dogs, Aquinnah and Martha.
Leo seemed to accept his place at the bottom of the kitty pyramid. He became friends with Annie. They slept together and he often groomed her. Leo and Teddy maintained an uneasy male alliance. Periodically they would tumble around, hissing, in what Paul and I called an exhibition of Greco-Roman wrestling. Leo studiously avoided the dogs.
He spent much of his time upstairs, where there are sunny, south-facing windows. While Annie and Clara hid when we had visitors, he and Ted would socialize. But mostly Leo kept himself to himself.
Quinn passed away in 2020. Clara was next at the end of 2022, then Martha in early 2024. Will arrived this past January, and then a few months later we lost both Annie and Ted.
Leo’s world had been turned upside down. Will was gentle and respectful of the cats from the moment he stepped through the door, but he was still a new, strange presence in the house. Now Leo’s best friend and frenemy were gone.
Not surprisingly, Leo got sick. He wasn’t eating, was vomiting and spent even more time upstairs. Though he didn’t exactly hide, we’d find him in odd places, like next to the love seat in the library. Normally, he’d be on the back of the couch, watching the world go by.
Since he’d hacked up a huge hairball at the outset of this illness, we gave it a few days, to see if he’d get over it. Then we brought him in to the vet’s. Steroids, antibiotics, anti-nausea meds—Leo was nearly back to normal within hours. And he was cheerful; clearly glad to be home.
There’s nothing like your people spending $300 on you to make you sassy, I joked.
Actually, I do think our furry friends do feel gratitude when they return home from the vet’s.
Leo’s appetite was great and he was engaging with us more and more. So we quickly noticed when he appeared to be squinting out of his right eye. Soon clear discharge appeared.
It was back to the vet’s again. One week later.
Leo is now doing fine after a round of eye drops. Better than fine. He’s Leo 2.0.
He still spends a lot of time by himself upstairs, but he also hangs out with us several times a day. Leo is regularly looking for rubs and hugs. I’m not exaggerating when I say we never heard his voice until a few weeks ago. We wondered if he had one.
Leo’s meow is bittersweet to me. I miss the loved ones we have lost, but I’m glad he’s finding himself. I’m sorry he’s an only cat, but the other day I caught him stretched out in the sun next to Will in front of the glass door to the deck. A friendship in the making?
We can only move forward in the face of grief; Leo is showing the way.
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